Why am i a loser/nerd/Geek?

ok i feel like a loser cause i have no girl friend and i haven't ever had one and every girl i ask says "EWWW NO" and it hurts my feelings.....Ex last week my friend stood up and this girl said somthing about him and she said go ahead say something to my face and i was trying to be funny and i said something to your face she turned to me and said you know what f*** you and i said no thanx so she said your right i wouldnt either cause your f***ing hidious and it hurt my feelings i was just standing up for myself why are people rude to me and why do i fell like a loser